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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like DH is a "people pleaser". He probably won't change. Was he like this before marriage? [b]You are not his #1 priority[/b].[/quote] To be fair, people who have that people pleasing tendency are usually really hard on themselves for not being able to be everything to everyone. He may value you as #1 for sure but its hard to overcome a lifetime of this behavior. It becomes engrained as someone you ARE and not just things you DO. He has to be aware of this and actively try to change it to make things better for his life/ your family balance.[/quote] +1 I agree. The fact that he's a guilt-ridden people-pleaser doesn't mean you're not #1.[/quote]
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