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[quote=Anonymous]This is an assertiveness issue for your daughter. It's important to be able to speak up for herself. The issue is not important. It could be her roommate is messy, it could be her roommate stays up too late and is noisy, it could be her roommate eats her food. The fact that her roommate engages in lesbian PDA is a red herring. The point is to speak up without losing the relationship. Your daughter says something like "You know I love Sarah too and hanging out with you guys is great. But can we set some serious study hours for just the two of us. It's just really distracting to try to study or read when the two of you are all over each other. And maybe you can save the heavy duty groping for lights out..." And, frankly, if she's not trying to study or seriously read, and they are not groping each other, then she lets it go. [/quote]
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