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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No...nothing since we conceived.  Wife's drive wasn't great before, and post-marital weight gain (and the body image issues) kind of made her even more inhibited.  We were sliding into procreative only mode already...now nothing...4 weeks.  I've stopped trying to initiate - I'll try touching and other affection that let her know I'm interested, but I'm not up for the rejection.  I don't have ED at all, but I'm no longer able to get aroused with her because she just lays there...is not interested and has tense body language.  We're in a tailspin and I fear we're gonna auger-in.

I give up...I'm destined to a life of masturbation.  Nothing new since I was a teenager I guess.  [/quote]

This is a really tough time. Don't assume that you're doomed for the rest of your life.[/quote]

I sure hope not.  I'm older so I guess I'm fortunate my drive isn't what it used to be.  If this turns permanent, I'm definitely going to have to find out about getting permission to get my needs met elsewhere.  I'm really excited we are pregnant - it's early, so I hope it sticks - and I love her to death, but I'm not ready to have no more sex for the rest of my life. In the meantime, I'm back to masturbating regularly.[/quote]

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