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[quote=Anonymous]If you want to do it for him - keep doing it. If you don't want to keep doing it - tell him, explain it to him and then stop doing it. That will include a time of adjustment for him where he will miss appointments, meeting with your friends, not get stuff done...he will have to deal with the consequences and most likely that will teach him to be more reliable. IF it is ADHD you can revert back to helping him out later, but just because this is a teeny tiny possibility don't live your life as if he had a diagnosis. And even if he gets a diagnosis at a point he still needs to learn to handle his life better than what he's doing right now. ADHD symptoms can be worked on, you don't just accept them and leave it be. What if you ever have to leave, go to hospital, what if you ever separate, Lord behold what if you die and he's left alone...loving him also means making sure he can handle himself. Not just doing everything for him.[/quote]
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