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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I could not be more opposite than MIL.  That REALLY sets her off!
  
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Do you think in some subconscious way she sees it as her son rejecting her?  Not suggesting this is a big deal, but that's an interesting observation you made and this just occurred to me as a possibility...[/quote]

You are extremely wise.  That is exactly what it is.  This is the smartest, most insightful thing I have read here in a long time! Are you a professional?  Because my MIL needs one :)

Seriously.

My mere presence annoys her.  I can not be sullen, downtrodden, and dwelling on the negative like her, and she has a problem with that.  Her favorite topics are people's ailments.  After my sitting bedside for months by different dying relatives, its not really my favorite subject.  I have lived it. It would ever occur to her to do that for anyone. Ever.  This is just one example.  She's just ungrateful, and tries to deflect all the time.  It's tiresome.  She's the "maybe its you" type that we all know.  I'm thinking if she knew anything about me, she would know better.  We don't talk much, she wants to control every situation, and we have nothing in common.  I've given up on her, which is not my norm.

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