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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"The woman is a disgusting fraud."

[b]There is nothing in your post that actually supports the idea that she is engaging in fraudulent behavior.[/b]

How about pretending to be worried he will work too hard and then letting him operate a chainsaw while on blood thinners? The fraud part is her concern for him. The fraud part is her pretense that she has no control.

[b]She may suck as a person but your dad choose her to be his wife so for whatever reason he finds her personality appealing[/b]

Now, if you said your dad was not mentally able to make decisions for himself then that would be another story.
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Well, the truth is, he is NOT, but its not because he is mentally challenged. [b]He has some kind of dependent personality problem [/b]and is terrified of losing her. She makes sure to leverage that.[/quote]

[b]His life, his choice.[/b]

You betcha.

[b]Think of it this way - he may totally hate your spouse as well. He just keeps it to himself.[/b][/quote]

Wrong. That is not the case. He continues to be supportive of us in his own internal way. He just used to be a different person. I hope you never experience this.[/quote]

You are right. He is now a different person. And that's ok.

I am not sure what "his own internal way" means but I think you mean you believe he is silently supporting you. I think that's just your own make believe and something you hang onto so you don't have to admit he is no longer the person you thought he was.

You might not always like the way people change but it's their prerogative to do so.
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