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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's tired of the drama.

Get to a counselor and figure out how to communicate rather than fight. [/quote]

I agree.  You'll benefit from this type of counseling whether you stay together or not because you two are hooked together for a very long time whether you like it or not.

My DH has a friend that sounds like you and your husband.  We knew before they were married that it was a bad match because they are so very different and don't complement one another.  He wanted a family and thought he could make it work so they got married.  After a year, he knew it was a mistake.  He and his wife enjoy some things together but not enough to outweigh their differences and not enoug to sustain a relationship.  He was about to request a separation/divorce when his wife found out she was pregnant with twins.  He's now just staying for the kids.  His love for them and his desire to not have to give up time with them outweigh his need/desire to have a satisfactory romantic relationship - for now.  [/quote]

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