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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here-  Yes she did apologize and there was no funeral, as my mother made me vow not to have one, and this request was also in her will.  What I did do is send out a memorial book with pictures of her over the years, obituary, etc. to family and friends, including my MIL and SIL.

Thanks for the feedback.  If I am being ridiculous, I want to know, and maybe I am.  It just hurts so much to lose my mother and not have the support I expected to receive.  If I am being crazy, then I need to find a way to move forward, and it sounds like that is the consensus here.[/quote]

OP, I don't think anyone is saying you are crazy.  I think your feelings are justified, and even if they weren't, your feelings are your feelings.  I think the point is, hanging on to the hurt doesn't benefit you in any way.  You need to let it go for yourself, not for them.  I do think grief counseling would be really helpful.

I'm sorry for the loss of your mom.  It sounds like you went through a really hard time for many years.  It's understandable that you would be struggling.  I'm sorry you didn't get the support you needed.[/quote]

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