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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've done my fair share of book reading on affairs post my husband's affair. The general gist is men and women cheat for different reasons. Usually men for sex and to make themselves feel better about themselves as men, women do it for love. For women, it's usually a prelude to divorce, for men, not necessarily. That being said, cheating in the past used to be about sex and a new hot thing. Now, most common affairs are workplace affairs, they develop over time, sometimes with the most seemingly well of intentions. But you spend 8-12 hours a day every day with someone at work, who generally looks their best because they have to dress up for work, and you guys share a lot. I didn't cheat, I never will. And I avoid being friendly with men at work because I don't want to even remotely offer up the chance. I'm hyper vigilant about that, tho.

I'd add, some people do it for the sex. I'm sure. But I think people who one night stand it aren't your homewrecking cheaters. The ones with prolonged romantic affairs, those do it for a variety of reasons. [/quote]

I've never cheated, but have been very tempted. I love my DH. I have plenty of sex with my DH (much more than most people being very high drive, as is he), but I really would love love to have sex with someone new. I have zero interest in a relationship, I already have that with my DH.

So if I were to cheat, it would be based on sex. Most men annoy me and I'd just want them to shut up and fuck. With my luck I'd probably get some stalker stage 4 clinger type. The only reason I don't cheat is because if my DH found out he would divorce me. If he gave me a pass, you bet I' take it.[/quote]

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