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[quote=Anonymous]I've done my fair share of book reading on affairs post my husband's affair. The general gist is men and women cheat for different reasons. Usually men for sex and to make themselves feel better about themselves as men, women do it for love. For women, it's usually a prelude to divorce, for men, not necessarily. That being said, cheating in the past used to be about sex and a new hot thing. Now, most common affairs are workplace affairs, they develop over time, sometimes with the most seemingly well of intentions. But you spend 8-12 hours a day every day with someone at work, who generally looks their best because they have to dress up for work, and you guys share a lot. I didn't cheat, I never will. And I avoid being friendly with men at work because I don't want to even remotely offer up the chance. I'm hyper vigilant about that, tho.

I'd add, some people do it for the sex. I'm sure. But I think people who one night stand it aren't your homewrecking cheaters. The ones with prolonged romantic affairs, those do it for a variety of reasons. [/quote]

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