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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think the issue is attraction. I was cheated on, but even before that I am just not OW type. I don't rationalize my own need over others, especially someone else's wife and kids first. That being said, now that I'm divorced, I found a few guys I work with attractive, there was some harmless flirtation over phone/email. When I met them, I found out they have a ring, I immediately ceased all contact. I keep it professional. No funny jokes, no nothing. I don't care to cross the line with them, even if other women don't mind. I know it start with rationalizing that you're harming no one, you're just friends, etc. And before you know it, some poor child has to split his time between two homes and a broken mom or dad who never saw the affair coming. No. Attraction is natural. Pursuing it in the very least selfish. S/He is in a committed relationship, I don't care if they're your soul mate, right now, they're with someone else who thinks they're their soul mates. If it's meant to be, you'll meet again later. And I agree with PPs, I'd never willingly consent to a relationship with a man I know cheated on his ex. If he cheats once, he'll probably cheat again, and if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you. [/quote]
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