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[quote=Anonymous]To avoid a long quote. My job does not require any travel. And the move was during the education part in which he chose a school based upon where I had to go. To the PP about the sacrifices I'm probably not noticing. I have no doubt that we are able to get through the day because of things he does. As I said, most of the reason abilities with the children are shared, I couldn't do all of them by myself for sure. The sacrifices he WILL have to make from now on will be very significant, as the real hours are about to become a reality. About him being a SAHD, in theory I would mind as it will help with logistics and the kids. However, from a romantic stand point, I don't know what it will do to my perception of my DH. This ambition thing has already been challenging, I fear that would be far worse. Worst case scenario: my work hours are too hard, if he is having some mood disorders now it will only worsen, I won't be around to nurture our relationship. What position does that put me in with the children, with assests and having to support him? Should I be trying to avoid divorce at all costs from a financial standpoint? Not worse scenario: Everything we have has been shared, am I in a position to have "my" money and "his" being separate? Is he allowed, legally that is, to use whatever he pleases as ours?[/quote]
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