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Reply to "7 yr relationship, no ring yet - am I wasting my time?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, imagine you've only been dating your boyfriend for, say, 6 months. Now imagine that, at the 6-month mark, he's saying and doing the things you claim he's doing now. In this hypothetical scenario, would you be less hesitant about ending the relationship? It would probably be a much easier decision, wouldn't it? Here's the thing. It's human nature to resist calling it a day on someone in whom you've invested a great deal. When things start to go wrong, you keep thinking that if you just invest a little more, you can turn the situation around. You keep investing more and more, and you keep saying, well, I've taken it this far . . . Sometimes it makes sense to stay, but this doesn't sound like one of those situations. It's very sad and very hard to let go, but that's what you need to do with someone who doesn't respect you. Say goodbye. Find someone who genuinely loves and cares about you because he respects you for who you are.[/quote]
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