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[quote=Anonymous]I was so anxious to get married and have kids, and my boyfriend was the reticent one. I waited it out for seven years and trusted that he meant it when he said he loved me and wanted to be ready to get married. He finally proposed after 7 years. We've been married for 3 years now and have a toddler. I realize he's reticent about ALL decision-making. From where to eat for dinner to when to buy a house, the dude has a major case of paralysis by analysis. Please keep in mind that whatever is keeping your boyfriend from making a decision on marriage is not going to change after the wedding day. I love my husband dearly and we have a nice life together. He is the kindest person I know. But that does not stop me from wondering what it would be like to have a life partner who is excited to make plans and decisions with me. OP, if that is something you can live with then accept you'll always be waiting on him and just keep on keeping on. If not, then move on and find someone whose timeline aligns with yours.[/quote]

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