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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Anyone feel differently if I told you this was not a wedding but a Bat Mitzvah?[/quote]

OP, what's up? Are you a troll or were you being dishonest in your original post or what?  You know how close you are to your family members. You know how much or how little the bar mitzvah matters to the hosts. In their shoes, would you want your sibling(s) and their family there or not?  Do what you would like them to do. [/quote]

No, I'm not a troll -- I wanted a variety of opinions.  People post less about Bat/Bar Mitzvah questions. As for the fact that I know my family, isn't that true of every post in this forum?  I'm asking for others' opinions.  [/quote]

It seems a little manipulative that you would first post one story, and people spend time and energy responding about a wedding, and now you say it's a bat mitzvah. But whatever. How religious is the family? How close to that sibling and to your niece are you? Is it at a place you'd like to travel anyway so it could become a mini vacation if you extend a day or two? [/quote]

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