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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]What is his deal? Anyone else's husband do this.[/quote]

Um no. I do most of the cooking, but I definitely do not pack DH's lunch or provide him snacks. And he does the shopping most of the time.

BTW: We kind of have a rule in the house: if you complain about the way your spouse is handling a particular task, [b]you are welcome to either take over that task to your satisfaction or STFU[/b]. The only gray area is child rearing--there we try to come to agreement on how to handle tricky issues. [/quote]

We sort of have that in our house. Informally of course.

OP, On occasion I might make his lunch but I'm not his mommy. I don't do it every day.
I also do the groceries and make dinner. When I was working, he would clean up and put away leftovers (usually it was his lunch the next day). Once I became a SAHM after DC#2 was born, I do put away leftovers while he's watching the kids. But I don't get up in the morning to make his lunch. IF I am awake, I will happily make it for him (he usually will ask). But most nights, I'm up late with DC 2, so its rare for me to be up in the morning.

What did he do BEFORE he was married? Did his mommy do the grocery runs and feed him? Don't enable him. He survived without you in his life, he can manage to act like a grown man now that he is married.[/quote]

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