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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]guy here - NO WAY.  you haven't told him that you slept with the guys he thinks are only friends.  and you can't tell him now - it's way to late to come clean and it will not come off (to him) good at all.[/quote]

Just invite them and say nothing. [/quote]

nothing like starting a new life with a spouse blind to deception...and deceived at the goddamn wedding no less!   :shock: [/quote]

That's why I'm feeling really bad. I don't want deception at the wedding.  It's just that early on when we discussed about our relationships and exes I just didn't mention guys who were not really relationships. I figured out that my fiance wasn't as active as I was before we met. He's a traditional man which is something I love about him because he treats better than anyone before him. He's also a bit sensitive though about what I did tell him so I figured why complicate things by telling even more.  [/quote]

guess what, you can't have your cake and eat it too - which is what you are trying to achieve.  it's not that I'm advocating for disclosing all your past sexual partners but you and fiance socialize with these guys - and he is under the impression that they're only friends but you fucked them.  Imagine how you would feel if your H's friend "Mary" who you've known for years, celebrated good and bad with you, and then you find out she sucked your H's cock for years, gave him her pussy and everything else - and he never told you.  All the while, they were carrying on like nothing ever happened - how betrayed would feel?  How would you feel if other friends in your social circle knew about them but kept that secret from you?

this is about how much do you actually respect your future H.  it's not about you - shocking I know.[/quote]

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