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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to have your mother evaluated by your local elder care, and then put the wheels in motion to have her move out or you move out.  We just went through a situation with my mil.  She was taking care of our youngest and living in our house.  She didn't have as many limitations, but the more time spent with her, we noticed how she wasn't mentally and emotionally stable.  It got to the point, along with a few other family issues, that we couldn't take it anymore, and she left to live with another sibling.  It hurt my husband and he feels badly, but at the same time recognizes how much happier and less stress we have in our lives.

If she has money, and you can help support her with weekly chores, there is no reason your family life needs to continue to suffer.  Figure out what choices you are willing to offer her, and tell her firmly she needs to pick one.  If not, you will.  Sounds mean, but she may have leRned a thing or two from her husband.  Good luck- from someone else burned by family[/quote]

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