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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mine is like this, too, OP.  It's such a bummer because the perfect solution for me and DH would be for us to each work half-time and stay home half-time, but that's not feasible.  He was extremely keen for me to be a SAHM, but when we fight his resentment comes out.  He doesn't like his job and feels trapped by golden handcuffs, but whenever I support the idea of him making a change, he gets paralyzed and does nothing.

It's frustrating, though, to be the whipping boy, and there are times when I think "fuck you, I'll go back to work and we can just hire a nanny."  But I chose to SAH for several reasons and I remind myself of those reasons.[/quote]

Sorry, but these men sound immature and entitled. They don't want to work but they probably wouldn't want to be a sahd either.   They are not realistic.   Sounds like the DWs are being supportive of the DHs to change jobs, but the DHs are too ??? to do it.  Unlike most people, sounds like your financial situation is such that the DH can change jobs.  They can actually do something about their unhappiness, unlike most people.  So what's the problem?[/quote]

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