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[quote=Anonymous]I can't stand being in weddings, but there's usually no good reason to say no. Your dh will have to decide for himself, but it's not so much about standing up for his new BIL (who he barely knows) as it is being part of his sister's wedding. I do think it's odd that you weren't asked, but since you know that you don't get along, she's clearly has the same idea.

As for your not yet born (?) daughter - by the time baby is 9 month old you won't be in the deer in headlights phase of being a new parent. Flower girls typically don't have to do much other than show up in a predetermined dress. Have dh remind sil that babies aren't walking at 9 months and are generally not so predictable in terms of cooperating for pictures, so it's a "hope for the best but prepare for the worst" situation. She needs to know that she can't be upset if a 9 month old refuses to sit in a wagon or sit still for pictures. It all depends on her expectations. But flower girls don't have the other hassles and expenses that go into wedding parties, so you're probably best off here keeping the peace and going with it.[/quote]

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