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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most flower girls that age are in wagons or are carried down the aisle. Basically just for pics.

Regardless of your hatred of SIL, you should let her niece be a flower girl. I bet she thinks it's a nice thing to ask.

[b]Conversely if I had a child near that age and they weren't asked to be a flower girl/ring bearer I'd be upset.[/b] [/quote]

Really?  DH had 5 nieces and 3 nephews.  None of them were in our wedding.  We each had two people stand up with us and that was it.  No one expressed any feelings of being left out.[/quote]

Totally agree! My brother just got married and my DD was 18 months. He called to ask if we would be offended if DD wasn't included in their wedding party. I said absolutely not and happily left her with my ILs for the evening. I had a better time without having her there.

If I were in your situation, OP, I would prob say yes bc I agree with an earlier PP that it's best to pick battles with crazy relatives. But I would be very clear about expectations and an exit strategy from the get-go.[/quote]

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