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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

Baby flower girl concerns aside, the bigger problem is that your SIL slighted you and didn't invite you to be in the wedding party whether you wanted to or not.

She deliberately included two out of three and excluded you.  Then she will probably make a big fuss over the plans for your baby flower girl and husband until the wedding and more exclusion.

She sounds like a piece of work. [/quote]

New poster here.

I really don't think this is a slight towards the OP.   It's VERY common for the groom to ask the bride's brother to be a groomsman, and maybe SIL just wants "a flower girl" and OP's baby is the only young girl in their family/friends circle.   
When I married, it did not occur to me to ask my brother's girlfriends (neither were married at the time) or my Dh's inlaws to be included in the wedding.  I asked one of his sisters to be a bridesmaid, and the other to do a reading.   I did not ask his brother's fiance to be a bridesmaid, do a reading, or in any way participate in the wedding other than being a guest.   It was not meant as a "slight."   Being a member of the wedding party is a big obligation, and I didn't want to ask anyone to commit to that unless I felt they were close enough to really WANT to.[/quote]

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