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[quote=Anonymous]Another guy here - as others (guys) have said, the main thing we men care about is attractiveness and personality.  We hate high maintenance and rightly or wrongly if we get a hint of that, no matter how hot a woman may be, we run in the other direction unless we're just looking for a romp in the sack.

You and your GFs may think you're nice, but when you're out, do you carry yourselves thinking you're all that?  You may not think so but body language, attitude and just the way you comport yourselves non-verbally speaks volumes.

Do you or how many of your GFs have 'lists' - you the know, the endless criteria that a potential guy has to meet for you to even accept a date?  Do you really know what you're looking for?  You want to meet great guys? Stop looking in the wrong places - we don't hang out at bars/clubs every weekend.

I can say this as a single dad in my early 40s - I don't care for or have time for the typical BS that women put men through.  I've met some terrific women in the last couple of years I've been dating again - the common thread is that these women are simply very cool and relaxed, we could talk about real things, they were comfortable with who they were and yes they were attractive.  It was just easy to connect with each other.  I've met/dated K st. types, academic types, feds, small business owners - mostly 35 years+ and some were single moms.  I've met women in the grocery store, at my neighborhood dry cleaners, out when I'm jogging or even at museums or the playground when I'm with my kid - more often than not the women have made the first approach.  What I'm saying is that it is easy to meet guys - are you and your friends really that open/approachable?

If you're not comfortable letting a man know you're interested you're definitely missing too many opportunities to meet guys.  If you or your friends aren't happy with your lives no man can change that for you.  It sounds like you are absolutely looking in the wrong places and I think there're perhaps more to it as well.
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