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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Adoption was my answer, too! I also got "lucky" with adoption, being chosen by the birth mom and quickly--- (esp. being single and mid-40's.) I feel beyond fortunate, and NEVER take it for granted EVER.

Consider ALL your options, think positive and be pro-active. That said, I know you are not in a good place (having been there myself,) and I am so sorry....I wish you success...and, remember, you WILL "get" the baby --- YOUR BABY --- one way or another. Hang in there....And WHEN it does happen, you will appreciate and love (almost) every minute because it took A LOT to get there, OP! ((hugs))[/quote]

I just had my second miscarriage and facing that I may not carry children.  I completely get what the OP is saying about the sadness and aimlessness.  I joined a support group for those who have had fertility issues/losses and that has been very helpful.  Although it is not perfect since some of those ladies are now pregnant, but still, a very safe place to vent to people who "get it".

Adoption has been in my mind but have heard horror stories about the process.  Any tips since you have been successful?[/quote]

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