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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am seeing a trend of being relatively inexperienced in the romance department. I wonder if it's possible to be head over heals in love in a long-term marriage if you've had too many other experiences to compare it to? What do you all think? I will say most of the happily marrieds I know met in their high school/college years and are in their 50s now. There are exceptions, but my friends who married later in life seem to have the most marital issues.[/quote]

Im not sure if this is the case. I think it has to do with meeting someone when you are still emotionally flexible and can grow with the person.  My DH and I met and have been monogamous with each other since we were 20 & 21. We married when we were 26 & 27. We are 36 &37 now and have practically "grown up" together.  I can't fathom having to adjust to someone after living alone until my mid 30s. Same as, I could not imagine getting a divorce or the death of my spouse and having to find another life partner. I know i would have a hard time dealing with someone new and their new habits.  My DH is great, he gives me so much space and lets me be me. He is never critical. Since we have been together since we were so young, we feel so comfortable together. I did a stupid naked dance booty pop last night that was so absurd. He secretly videotaped me and we were rolling on the floor laughing. I can't imagine being comfortable enough with another man to act so idiotic fully naked.[/quote]

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