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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Knew each other forever- friends first. 
Got together at 22, DW was a huge party girl with tons of experience, she was my first and so far only; she still doesn't know. Together 18 years and I wouldn't change a thing...well one or two extra sex partners would've been nice to have a frame of reference. [/quote]

Same here, only I'm female.  We were friends for over a year, he was more experienced, and he was my first and only.  (PP, how does your wife not know that?  Didn't she ever ask about your prior relationships?  Why wouldn't you want her to know?)

Started dating him at 19 when I'd really only dated for a few months before that (late bloomer).  After 4 years of dating, I married him when I was 23.  That was over 21 years and four kids ago. :D
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We were in the same social circles and she was very aware of who I was dating, she just assumed I was having sex with my girlfriends; but I actually wasn't. 
I've tried telling her the truth but she doesn't believe me because she knows more than half of the girls I was with. You wouldn't know it to look at me or talk to me but I suffered from astounding performance anxiety mixed with a heavy load of catholic guilt.

I was (sorta still am) handsome, funny, did tons of coke, partied at clubs all over NYC; mine was not the life of a virgin who was basically scared of girls. I carried on without ever being with anyone until one night she and I ran into each other and started kissing. Three nights later we were at my parents house and she just hopped on top of me and became my first. I loved her from afar for the previous 5 years and it all just clicked into place. In a weird way it seemed like deep down I was saving my self for her. (This sounds so f..ing lame!) 
Together 18 years and I couldn't imagine being any happier but occasionally I do wish I could've let myself get close to another woman once or twice.

Wow, this is the first time I've ever gotten this story out, feels good. Thanks for asking. [/quote]

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