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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are exactly the same. My mom was a sahm, so I thought she would delight in her grandkids. When we first moved to this area, I insisted we live in Arlington rather than DC so we wouldn't unnecessarily add 20 minutes to their trip (thinking they would make v frequent visits from NC). Instead, we see them twice a year. I really had to go through a grieving process - writing a goodbye letter to the mom I thought I knew/had (at the suggestion of a therapist). It helped temporarily, but it has taken years to accept (my oldest is 12). I'm still disappointed, but I have learned to accept the new reality for the most part and try to enjoy the time I have with them regardless. My sister and I commiserate/joke about it b/c they are the same way with my nephew. Interestingly, like a pp, I think my mom is now an alcoholic and that might have something to do with her lack of interest. [/quote]
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