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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the OP. 
I will leave the MIL out, doesn't make sense. I just get frustrated when everybody talks of DH as a hero and he is not. 
Don't call me a nag, don't even dare. 
He has been traveling for work for 3 weeks. Kids always asking when is he back etc. 
He is always late from work, does not have a stressful demanding job at all. In fact he is lucky he is in a phase where he could be home early, do some of the cooking he so much says he loves etc. But he doesn't. He procrastinates. Watches porn with the excuse he is addicted. Etc etc. Doesn't go to DS show, late all the time, kids always asking etc. 
So I  constantly holding the fort and keeping it together. [/quote]

Sounds more like you're jealous than a nag.
If you wanna get out the house for a change then you need to find something to do and somewhere to go and tell hubby of your plans.
He's got plans...He's got places to go and people to see and evidently you don't.  It's time to change that.  Don't pitch a fit bitching at his procrastination and tardiness, GET OUT YOUR DAMN SELF!!!
Look - it's both of your jobs to hold down the fort and keeping the family together so if you'd start doing roller derby 2 nights a week or taking a yoga class regularly or hell just going out 2/3 times a week to get eggs and take your f%cking time doing it then HE HAS TO PICK UP THE SLACK.
It's plain as day you're bored/lonely/unhappy and in dire need of some change/excitement but you're putting too much emphasis on the all the shit he "gets away with" and not enough emphasis on all the shit you're missing out on.
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I second this. Get out of the house - if I was away on business for 3 weeks, I would need a recovery weekend too. Give him a break and go do something on your own. [/quote]

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