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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I want to start off by saying I am so sorry for your predicament. I hope things work themselves out for the better soon.

I am a bit confused because on one hand you say that your job prospects are meager and it sounds like you won't be able to find suitable employment to adequately support yourself + your children, but then you say you won't qualify for alimony because you have a good education which I assume would mean that you could get a better paying job than your husband currently has. So I don't get it.

Anyhow, if you feel the love is gone in your marriage, all it takes is for you to look your husband in the face and directly ask him if this is so. If he confirms what you truly believe, then yes, I would say your marriage is over unless of course you wouldn't mind staying in a loveless marriage, but then you would be selling yourself short and who would agree to do that?

I know you want your children to grow up in a loving home where they feel loved all the time and they can get that, just because their parents are not in love anymore doesn't mean that they have to grow up feeling unloved.

You say your husband is a great father. I am assuming he is also a loving father as well.

So in spite of you and your husband not being able to make your marriage work by living together, you can both show your children individually as well as collectively how much they are loved.

You don't have to live together to unitedly express love to your kids. And I am quite sure they understand this.

Hope this makes you feel better and gives you some clarity.

Good luck.[/quote]

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