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[quote=Anonymous]OK, first the bad news.

Things aren't going to go anywhere with this guy.  How do I know this? Because he describes you as "fun to hang out with" and he "enjoys dating you."  The other members of this club are "I'm very fond of you" and "you're a really cool girl."  Do you know what this means?  "I'm not in love with you, but this is easy and convenient, so I'm going to enjoy sex and companionship until something better comes along."

Sadly, this is something that 99% of all guys practice.  They know pretty much right away if you are or are not the one, but they will coast along just for fun for as long as you let them. And you appear to be letting them.

Now the good news.  It's entirely up to you! You are a master of your own destiny.  You, and you alone may determine the terms on which you allow men to enjoy your company in and out of bed.

-  If you want to find a serious relationship, tell the guy RIGHT AWAY that you want a serious relationship, and you're dating him with this in mind.

- Until the guy makes an offer of exclusivity, don't sleep with him and date multiple men.  Every man has something that the other doesn't, and it will keep you from obsessing over any one of them.

- DO NOT SLEEP WITH THE GUY unless things are serious.  I will repeat.  DO NOT SLEEP WITH THE GUY unless things are serious.

- Lose all inhibitions about asking the guys where things stand and where he sees them going.   Preferably before you get naked with them.  I am sick of seeing women saying things like "I've been seeing this guy for six months but I'm so afraid to ask if he's my boyfriend because ummm he will think I'm so uncool."  Dude!!! It's your life!!! Ask! Ask for what you want!! Set the terms! If you don't get it, move along! Honestly![/quote]

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