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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry, no real advice, just commiseration. Limit contact as much as possible. My FIL makes racist and other comments that piss me off. I'm Asian; DH is white. In the beginning, I would try to converse with him when he made such comments. Now, I just shut my mouth and hardly say one word to him. Yes, I practically ignore him. I'm not rude, just don't engage him in conversation. My case is different though. They live in a different country so we hardly see them. And they are really old and probably won't last too long so I try not to stir the pot. But even my DH hates some of what he says. He got really upset with them once about a comment my FIL made in front of me. I kept my mouth shut, not because I am the stereotypical submissive Asian wife, but for the reasons I stated above. I put up with it since I don't see them often, and they won't last much longer. Your DH needs to run interference. [/quote]
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