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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are doing the right thing the way you are handling it now.

You should always take the high ground when children are involved.

You do not have to be friends with her, but I think you are right to be civil and support the relationship, within acceptable boundaries.

I don't understand all these people saying you shouldn't leave your kids with their grandmother - why not?[/quote]

Did you READ her post? Third paragraph from the bottom. The grandmother threatened to take OP's child away from her. That right there means the child will never be alone with her. [/quote]

People often threaten unwise things during divorce proceedings. That doesn't mean you should take it out on the children by undermining their relationship with their grandparents. Children should not be used as weapons in your wars.[/quote]

Some one who's threatened to take your children away from you is a safety threat to your family. Kidnappings are most frequently done by people known to the family. It's not about using your child to hurt the grandparent, but protecting the child from malicious and potentially mentally ill people. [/quote]

Massively over-reacting to situations, e.g. worrying about grannies kidnapping their grandkids is also a sign of potential mental illness, just so you know...[/quote]

Well maybe you come from a family where people say crazy things they don't mean just to stir up drama, but in my family, if some one said they wanted to take your kids away from you, it wouldn't be seen as a joke or something grams just says in the heat of the moment. That's absolutely crazy. We're not going to treat you like normal grandma after that. [/quote]

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