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[quote=Anonymous]I think you are handling this in a fantastic manner! Your daughter is lucky to have such a mature, rational mom. Ex in laws have boundary issues. Keep your healthy boundaries set. Try not to deviate or make more accommodations. If they get an inch they will try to take a mile. I know it doesn't help with the stress much, but I think you are handing it all very well and your daughter will benefit. I'd probably politely write back to ex BIL what you write here: "In the past year, I have sent her multiple emails with hotel and sightseeing suggestions and replied to all of her texts, FB messages and emails within 24hrs. I suggest good dates to plan visits, send her links to possible events that she would enjoy taking DC to, I allow her access to my social media so she can see what DC is up to. " It's reasonable. It's responsive. Just repeat as necessary. Good luck.[/quote]
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