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[quote=Anonymous]We have some one like this and it's awkward but our family doesn't reward drama - whether it's the 2 year old who thinks she'll get another serving of ice cream if she cries long enough, the teenager who slams the door when curfew isn't extended, or the crazy IL who clearly doesn't want to be there. Ignore ignore ignore. Do not engage. Carry on with the family fun with those who are actually willing and wanting to interact with you.

If your SIL wants to storm off in a huff, let her. It's none of your business. Carry on with the family festivities. When she's ready to rejoin, she will. She's a grown up, no need to chase after her, or try to get her to use her words instead. She'll do her thing, you continue to do yours.

If you want to continue having a good relationship with your brother, interact with him directly, let it be known you're there to listen if he wants to talk, but if not - just stay interested in his life and let him know what's going on with yours. Be welcoming and kind to the SIL but if she wants/needs space, respect that too. [/quote]

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