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[quote=Anonymous]I think this depends somewhat on the personalities and relationships of siblings, but in my large extended family, whoever would benefit the most gets the beds and everyone else is cool with that. In your situation, that would be the family with a toddler. If sibling B had back problems or something though, she could stake a legitimate claim. A couple might get priority over a single person, since that means two people get to sleep in comfort over one - but the single person would be compensated for getting the shaft (either with a nice bottle of wine from Sibling C, the choice room on another trip, etc) and thanked profusely. I'm the youngest of 4 kids, and have spent a fair amount of time being the one who spends Christmas eve sleeping on the pool table. It is what it is. Do you have any other flexibility in arrangements though? When we have multiple families visiting, especially ones with young kids, we often give up our room & office (with air matress) to one family, host another in our guest room, and my husband and I take the couches or bunk with our kids. I've also shared my bed with my sister and my husband has taken the couch. [/quote]
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