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[quote=Anonymous]Well the food & beer issue - does he have low impulse control? A food addiction? A shopping habit? My husband has a food addiction problem and when he hides, or doesn't divulge, his take out orders it's mostly out of embarrassment. He hasn't actually hidden anything - I can see every single purchase on Mint and he's the one who set that up, so if I wanted to track his every purchase, I could and he knows it. But I don't keep tabs like that - I am worried about his health and I try to keep my message focused on that rather than the purchase of the day. The childcare pick ups - can you just sit down with him and let him know that you understand work, traffic, & the like can make him run late and you're fine with a neighbor helping out, but you'd just appreciate being looped in? My neighbors & I help each other with pick ups at least once a week - it's just a matter of including your spouse on the SOS text you send to the neighbor when asking for help. I'm sure he could get in the habit and if you let him know you're not going to make an issue of it, he has no reason not to. [/quote]
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