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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Denial is not just a river in Egypt, y'all.[/quote]

With such obvious evidence, she should confront him.

OP your choices are 
1. Ignore the fact that his cheating or thinking about it
2. confront him and either fix your marriage or divorce him.

Personally, I would choose #2: confront and divorce. To me, what he did was a breach of trust and without trust, there is no marriage. I refuse to be one of those women who are constantly suspicious. That's no way to live. Either trust fully (because trust was earned) or end the relationship because that trust was broken.

Your life, your call.
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I have confronted him on the affair but not the internet activity yet. Just found it. [/quote]

IMO. The internet activity is worse than cheating. Cheating is reality. It's done after a time frame and you either forgive and forget or move on. Internet activities of the explicit nature such as the friendfinder sites are a dime and dozen, cultivated to draw you in under the guise of anonymity. The temptation is too easy to hide. Your DH at work or in a home office is pretending work but is really sexting/sexchatting with various women. It could go on for years. In many ways causing the sensuality breakdown in marriage/relationship. Resulting in a poor sexual life, distrust, blah blah blah.

I'm sure some people would say, "at least he isn't cheating". (Check out Chatzy one night) That's all that is in there, basically. Both married men and women paying more attention to entertaining online strangers instead of working on their marriages/ relationships. I get that's it's easy, fun or a distraction but at what cost. Divorce? Distrust? Or worse, to be drawn deeper into it where he'd rather be online than with you.

If you don't have a problem with your husband living on the internet one way but home with you another. You really don't have a problem. You have to decide, what can you live with?[/quote]

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