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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good luck, OP. I don't have a drug addicted family member, BUT I have had to talk about a similar scenario re: my BIL many times. Unfortunately, he also comes with 2 kids in tow. My husband almost caved when he heard that his brother's girlfriend and the kids were on medicaid and food stamps (after my IL's realized they no longer could afford to support the extra 4 people in their house). I had to remind him that nothing good comes of us sending money as we know they wouldn't do anything worthwhile with it. And frankly, our tax dollars ARE already supporting them. But I do fear what happens if and when my ILs pass - I have said I might be willing to take in the kids (our niece and nephew), because they didn't ask to be born to idiots, but no way no how are the two adults moving into our house.[/quote] It's kind of you to take in the kids. Sadly, no good deed goes unpunished. I hope they don't have any more kids.[/quote]
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