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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I just mean that it was awful the first time around- anxiety, depressed, loss of control, takes over your life with all the appts and monitoring, hormones shots etc.  so it's just really hard to be back there again and doubly exhausting to do it while also taking care of a toddler bc I have so little time to take care of myself the way I did last time... Just wondering if anyone else did multiple rounds of ivf for both kids and has any perspective/wisdom from the other side?  How to emotionally get through it...[/quote]

Oh, cry me a river. You tried few times and you DID GET pregnant and now you complain that you may have to try few more times before you get pregnant? Want an advice - appreciate what you have and stop whining. As someone who has been thru 7 (yes, seven) IVFs and 2 surgeries and has never seen a BFP (and will likely never see one), it is really hard to sympathize with you. If you are overwhelmed and depressed, you may want to see a counselor for your sake and the sake of the child you have.  [/quote]

WTF is this!?  Go see a counselor yourself.  I know IF sucks, but no need to take out your frustrations on someone else in pain.  [/quote]

I have seen a counselor, that's why I am not whining on anonymous boards. I am grateful for what I have and that I never had to experience a miscarriage. So yes, there is always worse. Go back and read the OP post, her biggest problem is that she might have to try few more times before she is successful. if IVF has worked once, it is highly likely it would work again. I did think that she may be suffering from depression ( as did few others ) and that's why I suggested counseling ( which btw is the only constructive suggestion made so far). Not sure how the " hang in there" and " we have all been there" actually helped her.

This is not a topic to measure each other's pain and compete who has suffered the most but to find the positive in the pain. [/quote]

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