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[quote=Anonymous]Ok let's not get into a battle of primary infertility vs. secondary infertility.  This is a NP.  Someone who has been through both.  People with primary infertility think the secondary folk dont appreciate what they have, have no right to complain.  it's HARD.  it's different.  your desire for another child is different from your desire for a child altogether- and it doesnt make you greedy or deluded to feel that way.  the secondary infertility folk get no respect.  imagine going through all the treatments and stuff while simultaneously having a life that's not your own b/c you're constantly exhausted taking care of a toddler.  imagine having to go back into the hell-hole of IVF all over again.  yes, all things considered, anyone would rather have one child than no children, but the people suffering for #2 arent in that world- and just because some are worse off than they are doesnt mean their situation isnt hard.  PP, someone out there is a dying in a refugee camp.  does that mean that your situation doesnt suck or feel awful?  some people have infertility AND their parent dies suddenly.  some people have infertility AND they lost their house in a fire.  there's always people worse off and better off and everyone's misery is their own.  you cant accuse someone of not having it hard just because you have it harder- IVF sucks.  infertility sucks.  whether it's worked for you once before or not.[/quote]

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