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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, Thanks everyone for all the helpful advice and insight. When you are in the midst of it, sometimes you lose sight of the bigger picture. I'm not making allowances for him. I really do think his feelings for me are genuine. I don't really see it as me putting all the effort, I do the bulk of the driving, but he also hosts me on the weekends I do stay over, cooking and taking me out on dates. I agree, it would be nice if he came down to see me but I have a roommate while he has his own place, so it's more convienent and private staying at his place. I'm in the process of getting my own place and he's been encouraging about it, and has said he would come visit me when I do get my place. He never asks for these things, I just naturally go out of my way because I never felt so connected like this with someone in a long time.

A poster asked if I wanted to get married and start a family. Yeah I do, I'll be 32 coming up and most of my friends are married and have kids of their own. No pressure or timelines though. I can be patient as long as I know the other person is as invested.

I agree I need to have a talk with him and let him know what I want. I think all this confusion about where I stand is making me feel insecure.

He usually works on 3-4 projects a year, may lasts for a couple of weeks to a few months. He's been offered projects in the east coast but he assured me he's sticking locally. Since he's moved he's worked on two cases, only a week or so break, working 60 plus hours. When he has anytime to himself, he catches up with his family, me, errands, housework. From time to time, he also plays music, which gives him some relief and joy from the stress of work.[/quote]

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