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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What cynics!

OP, u have it backwards. U need to be the person you want to be. And you need to be with the person who shares the same core beliefs with you.

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Yes!! OP, please take this to heart. The right man will love you for who you are - so let's say that you should marry the man who you can be 100% yourself with. I have no idea what a "successful wife" is, get that right out of your head and throw it in the trash. There is no such thing as "wife material". 
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This. Only this.[/quote]

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Yup. Wish I had taken this to heart sooner. Had a lot of miserable relationships trying to make a square peg fit into a round hole, trying to be the perfect WASPy woman that the guys in my circle seemed to always marry. After one spectacularly bad relationship I decided to hell with it all. I embraced my non-WASP self and ended up married to my soulmate less than 18 months later. We have a wonderful life filled with a mutual love of books and a loud, demonstrative and deeply loving family. No golf pants to be found. Lots of happiness though. A lot of those guys I dated are on to wife #2 or even #3. Don't wish for it, OP. Be you. You're lovely as you are. Really.[/quote]

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