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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think a nice note saying what you've said in your second paragraph right above (...we've shared a lot, I want to be there for you but I understand you may need distance, etc...) would be perfect. If you are able to allow her space and time (if that's what she needs ) and still be prepared to be her friend during that and after - whatever after looks like, then you are a true friend. I have been in her shoes and can understand why she might be behaving this way - especially when some of your mutual friends are on their second kid. There is such anguish with infertility, and will all of the losses, failures, guilt, time, physical/emotional/monetary strains that come with it, etc... Your kindness and understanding, and willingness to allow distance without writing off the friendship, are the best things you can do for her until she asks for something more.[/quote]
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