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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a similar position.  How old are your kids?  My youngest is now 8 and life is good.

To answer your question, my workaholic, high earning DH does very little around the house.  He is good about plugging into family activities and sports driving on the weekends.  When I have a bad evening (I need to be two places at once), he will arrange to work from home so he can get everyone where they need to be in the after school/evening hours.  He cleans our two cars and does some yard work on the weekends and occasionally folds laundry and does dishes (but only if I prompt on the last two).

I definitely remember being resentful when my kids were younger.  Now, with them both in school, I just try to make sure I can rejuvenate during the week because the weekends are actually more work for me:))  I have really had to shift my thinking to realize that my "me time" is while the kids are in school and the weekends I spend supporting the rest of the team.  A lot of this is about expectations.   If you are able to get enough "you time" when your DH is not home, you don't resent unloading the dishwasher while he reads the newspaper on the weekend.

I am sure I am going to get flamed for being a "traditional wife"  but I will say this.  I've been married almost 20 years.  My DH is not going to change and suddenly work less and do more dishes.  He and I have to work together to make sure we both live a satisfying life.  For me, that doesn't mean fighting with him to become a great multi-tasker when he just doesn't seem to have it in him.  I love him and our family works well.  There are many types of partnerships.  You just have to find the one that works for u.[/quote]

NP in a similar boat. And pretty happy, too. Main thing only he takes care of is me![/quote]

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