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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I was the fiance I would want to know.  IT has nothing to do with how it benefits the OP.  The point is that there is a poor sap that thinks he is getting one thing when in reality it is a whole other story.  I say to tell the fiance anonymously.  [/quote]

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You're exactly right - this doesn't benefit me in any way. In fact, it would only make my life more dramatic to get involved. That's why I'm writing here to discuss this dilemma.

That said, what is my moral obligation? If I follow the Golden Rule - "do unto others as you would have them do onto you" - I would certainly want to know about all of this if I was the fiance. But I also respect the fact that sometimes we just need to MYOB.

And yes, I do have a life. But the woman has always sucked in her "good friends" into her drama and airing her grievances. She always needs a shoulder to cry on, but never has the time to provide one when her friends are facing difficulties. It's all about her and her wants. If I did contact the fiance, I would do so anonymously.[/quote]

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