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[quote=Anonymous]The thing is that if you tell your obese spouse that you do not find their excess weight attractive or you are embarrassed of them in public, then you are an asshole. If you tell your spouse that you are worried about their health, it just does not have the shock value of saying that you don't find them attractive. So, they ignore you and do nothing. Yes, intellectually I want my spouse to be healthy so all the internal organs and body system is working well - for the good of my family. But emotionally and in my secret thoughts I am put off with the obesity as well. The truth is that the fit spouse does not see the clogged arteries of their overweight spouse, but they do see the hanging gut and jowly face. The fit spouse may not feel the great effort the heart of the obese spouse has to undertake to keep blood flowing in that body, but they feel the tires, the bulges, the rolls of fat, the man boobs - and it is a mood killer. [/quote]
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