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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was dating someone I wasn't 100% attracted to.  So[b] I forced myself to fantasize about him - both sexually and during nonsexual activities - and it helped me become more attracted to him.[/b]  Maybe that could help?  Replace Channing Tatum with your husband in your fantasies, and see what happens?

That said, I'm also a fit woman who has trouble being attracted to men who aren't in good shape, so I understand where you're coming from.  I'm not saying they have to hit the gym every day, but I like a guy who takes care of himself.  For me, being completely sedentary and not eating well is a red flag that I'm going to caregive for someone in his later years when his good luck runs out - or that he'll die early.  I tend to date military, runners or guys who have always played a sport - they appreciate that I keep in shape too.[/quote]

Interesting approach ... I could give it a shot. I'm not really sure how to "make myself" fantasize about him, but I can definitely give it a try. I've never been big on fantasy, but maybe now's the time. Along with the alcohol and blindfolds some have suggested, could get interesting...[/quote]

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