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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here:  I think you should be honest with him and give him a chance to fix it.  I'd rather know the truth and find a way to deal with it.  Also, just a PSA for the single women on DCUM, please don't marry a man you don't find that attractive.  It kind of sucks to spend years wo dering why your DW isn't that into sex.  Ask me how I know.  ;-p[/quote]

Abso-fucking-lutely. Unless you're a complete troll, there is someone in the world who will probably find you attractive. It's just cruel to deprive your s/o of a chance to find that person if you aren't one who does. [/quote]

I often feel guilty about it. I know there are plenty of women who find him attractive - he gets hit on as much as I do. But I also have to say, I think there was an unspoken understanding about this with us from the very start of our relationship. I think he always knew this was the case, and wanted to be with me anyway. And as much as I feel guilty about it from time to time, I can't say that I think we made the wrong choice. We love each other very much and sex is fantastic based on that alone. The physical attraction is something I have to get over to get in the mood to start with, but once we're in it, I'm there and it's great. I don't know ... it's complicated? [/quote]

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