Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "How do your ILs identify you? "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I've been married 20 years. When we were first married, I called MIL 'Joan' shortly after she said to DH not to call her that, that she wanted me to call her mom. (No MIL waws divorced and FIL was not involved in DH's life.) Sorry - but she wasn't my mom and I did not feel at all close to her that I wanted to call her that. Two years into our marriage, the DRAMA on DH's side of the family was too much. I was considering divorce. I decided to have nothing to do with my il's. Holidays were spent with my family or with friends. After 8 years of marriage I tried to participate with il's again. The attempt to control us was beyond any benefit of being around them and we moved 2500 miles away. SO, il's don't call me anything...[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
