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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok.  From the responses I received, I've calmed down some.  Yes, the car is 10 years old. For me a car is a car, and yes it's a mini van. I do keep my cars until they die or the next mechanic invoice is a couple thousand or more than the car is worth.

Thank you for all of your responses.

Also for the PP who asked my relationship with my ILs is okay.  We tolerate each other.  When they visit they stay 2 weeks +   I try to make their visit as comfortable as possible.  There have been some issues, ex:  FIL wrestles with my 8 year old and [b]ends up hurting him[/b].... it's an issue and we have [b]hopefully gotten it through to him[/b] that he's the adult he needs to stop.

Again thanks. [/quote]

Um, what? I'd be less concerned about damage to the car. The first time this happened, we would have had a conversation; the second time, he'd never be let back in my house. WTF, OP?[/quote]

YES!!! PP we have dealt with this and this last time they visited my DH had a conversation with FIL (his step father)  In all honesty it was not the most pleasant visit, because MIL denies what FIL is doing so this last time, they were not allowed to stay with the boys on their own or take them anywhere, I know I will probably get blasted, but it's been an ongoing issue  and the way they (MIL & FIL) acted about it made me really uncomfortable.  Apparently he's done this to other kids in the family, I could not trust them with my precious boys!!! -- I think this time was the time that DH stressed it the most and hopefully it will not be a problem in the future.  [/quote]

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